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amarie
03-17-2006, 11:15 PM
Do you believe in abortion?

Me personally I believe that sometimes it’s the right thing to do rather then bring a child into a world where you know that you wont be able to support them or that they may have a medical condition or so on. I guess it depends on the circumstances….

I don’t believe that you should practice unprotected sex as you know you can get a abortion if you don’t want to give birth but at the same time I do believe in some instances abortion is the right way to turn..

a brief overview of my POV

method
03-17-2006, 11:26 PM
Abortion is kinda mean if the fetus gets too far away from being a tadpole. Adoption is more humane.

trave
03-17-2006, 11:30 PM
Do you believe in abortion?

Me personally I believe that sometimes it’s the right thing to do rather then bring a child into a world where you know that you wont be able to support them or that they may have a medical condition or so on. I guess it depends on the circumstances….

I don’t believe that you should practice unprotected sex as you know you can get a abortion if you don’t want to give birth but at the same time I do believe in some instances abortion is the right way to turn..

a brief overview of my POV

dont you think that guys should also get a say, if a girl can decide, shouldnt the guy be able to decide also. :yes:

amarie
03-17-2006, 11:40 PM
They should decide together, unless his a hit, shoot run type of guy..

I don’t see it as inhuman until a certain point of the pregnancy...

i think its more inhuman to bring a child into this word if there going to live a fucked up life

trave
03-18-2006, 12:09 AM
They should decide together, unless his a hit, shoot run type of guy..

I don’t see it as inhuman until a certain point of the pregnancy...

i think its more inhuman to bring a child into this word if there going to live a fucked up life

Seems like the girl get the to decide for the most part, if he says no she can do it anyway. but if he wants it he cant make sure its done :werid:

amarie
03-18-2006, 12:30 AM
Seems like the girl get the to decide for the most part, if he says no she can do it anyway. but if he wants it he cant make sure its done :werid:

The guy can decide what hole to crawl up or not?

femme_fatale
03-19-2006, 01:44 AM
it was your choice to have sex without a condom. so deal with the child.
now if you got raped thats a different story.

abortion is killing a life . an innocent life who hasnt even seen the world yet. if you dont want the child give it up for adoption that way some couple who can't have their own child can have yours.

lost_element
03-19-2006, 05:34 AM
it was your choice to have sex without a condom. so deal with the child.
now if you got raped thats a different story.

abortion is killing a life . an innocent life who hasnt even seen the world yet. if you dont want the child give it up for adoption that way some couple who can't have their own child can have yours.

werd but condoms work only 97% of the time so they culda worn protection and still managed to gotten pregnant

femme_fatale
03-19-2006, 07:05 PM
werd but condoms work only 97% of the time so they culda worn protection and still managed to gotten pregnant
true. but if you end up with a child that you dont want. dont kill it. give it to someone who wants one.

Thumb
03-20-2006, 08:06 AM
No. Abortion is a conspiracy made up by the left wing government to forward the feminist agenda.

pimps
03-20-2006, 04:41 PM
i think its wrong, but some cases require it.

xoxsweetlips710xox
04-02-2006, 03:01 PM
abortion can be right or wrong depending on the situation..such as rape but there are many more

but what really annoys me is people are trying to ban abortion which is stupid because one way or another if someone does'nt want a child they're going to try to kill it any way they can...it'll be crazy then

hate
04-02-2006, 03:36 PM
abortion can be right or wrong depending on the situation..such as rape but there are many more

but what really annoys me is people are trying to ban abortion which is stupid because one way or another if someone does'nt want a child they're going to try to kill it any way they can...it'll be crazy then

They will not KILL it. Second if a girl can decide if she wants a baby aborted or not why cant a Guy...?


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Balla_Chik
04-02-2006, 05:48 PM
They will not KILL it. Second if a girl can decide if she wants a baby aborted or not why cant a Guy...?


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Cuz the guy won't have to carry it for 9 months!

it was your choice to have sex without a condom. so deal with the child.
now if you got raped thats a different story.

abortion is killing a life . an innocent life who hasnt even seen the world yet. if you dont want the child give it up for adoption that way some couple who can't have their own child can have yours. .

Completely agreed. :cheers:

I heard the morning after pill is super effective?

I feel bad for "on accident" kids.

hate
04-02-2006, 06:22 PM
Cuz the guy won't have to carry it for 9 months!



Completely agreed. :cheers:

I heard the morning after pill is super effective?

I feel bad for "on accident" kids.

The father should not be responsible for the baby... If the father has no say in the outcome…


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Such_a_Cutie
04-02-2006, 06:51 PM
The father should not be responsible for the baby... If the father has no say in the outcome…


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no way :hand:

hate
04-02-2006, 07:12 PM
no way :hand:


Nice way to put up a valid agrument...


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Such_a_Cutie
04-02-2006, 07:13 PM
Nice way to put up a valid agrument...


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okay.......
who are you that I have to provide a valid argument?

Balla_Chik
04-02-2006, 09:33 PM
The father should not be responsible for the baby... If the father has no say in the outcome…


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A woman's responsibilities regarding a child are far more important and effective than that of a father's. If a woman feels she can't take on such a big responsibility, then it'll be 5 times, if not more, harder for a man, especially if the guy's young. Come on noww!

hate
04-02-2006, 09:58 PM
A woman's responsibilities regarding a child are far more important and effective than that of a father's. If a woman feels she can't take on such a big responsibility, then it'll be 5 times, if not more, harder for a man, especially if the guy's young. Come on noww!


That is not the point? then should she not be responsible and not him? If its so much her choice? You yourself are saying the woman should be...



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Balla_Chik
04-02-2006, 10:12 PM
That is not the point? then should she not be responsible and not him? If its so much her choice? You yourself are saying the woman should be...



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of course to produce a kid, the girl and guy are equally responsible, but i mean when it comes to the care of child, a woman usually has more say and is pressured to teach em the right things. So if she can't take on the task or isnt ready for it, then it would be impossible for a guy. Its not the point but it supports the point greatly.

When it comes to responsibility and a mother's care regarding her kids, she is always the one that has to deal with the problems. Society looks down upon kids that act up or dont fit the "standards." But you wont ever see em blaming the daddio for it. They'll say momma didnt teach em right.

Nobody wants to kill an innocent life. There are so many other factors that play into such a big decision.

hate
04-02-2006, 10:16 PM
of course to produce a kid, the girl and guy are equally responsible, but i mean when it comes to the care of child, a woman usually has more say and is pressured to teach em the right things. So if she can't take on the task or isnt ready for it, then it would be impossible for a guy. Its not the point but it supports the point greatly.

When it comes to responsibility and a mother's care regarding her kids, she is always the one that has to deal with the problems. Society looks down upon kids that act up or dont fit the "standards." But you wont ever see em blaming the daddio for it. They'll say momma didnt teach em right.

Nobody wants to kill an innocent life. There are so many other factors that play into such a big decision.


The point you keep making is that the mother is the main part of the babys life, then why should we hold the males responsibile, why do we require them to pay child support if they have no say? if all the discretion goes to the mother...?


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sapno_di_rani03
04-02-2006, 10:22 PM
The point you keep making is that the mother is the main part of the babys life, then why should we hold the males responsibile, why do we require them to pay child support if they have no say? if all the discretion goes to the mother...?


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:slap: all dads do is give the damn sperm...ohh woopty doo...ishh the mother has to carry the child and go through the labor pain...shesh... :ugh:
~Charmi~

hate
04-02-2006, 10:24 PM
:slap: all dads do is give the damn sperm...ohh woopty doo...ishh the mother has to carry the child and go through the labor pain...shesh... :ugh:
~Charmi~


So your saying the dad doesn't count? So why do you have to hold him responsible...?


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Balla_Chik
04-05-2006, 12:20 AM
So your saying the dad doesn't count? So why do you have to hold him responsible...?


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Okay okay, i get what you're saying. Of course the dad's say counts and if he wants to keep the kiddo then he should be able to. But he cant keep the baby if he cant convince his woman to do so. It can be worked through without abortion, but there has to be mutual consent otherwise you and the baby are screwed, which is the saddest part. Abstinence is the answer. Lol.

midtownmadnesses
04-06-2006, 01:26 AM
it was your choice to have sex without a condom. so deal with the child.
now if you got raped thats a different story.

abortion is killing a life . an innocent life who hasnt even seen the world yet. if you dont want the child give it up for adoption that way some couple who can't have their own child can have yours.

Abortion is murder...I absolutely agree....

hotfry
04-08-2006, 12:09 AM
it was your choice to have sex without a condom. so deal with the child.
now if you got raped thats a different story.

abortion is killing a life . an innocent life who hasnt even seen the world yet. if you dont want the child give it up for adoption that way some couple who can't have their own child can have yours.

condoms arent 100% it still can happen even if u wear one

midtownmadnesses
04-08-2006, 05:18 PM
condoms arent 100% it still can happen even if u wear one

Excuses excuses!

man!!

daydream
04-09-2006, 01:17 AM
but there shouldnt be an encouragement to act without thinking...you know they arent 100%...now think about it before you go ahead and take the moment...

Babygirl
04-10-2006, 06:09 PM
but there shouldnt be an encouragement to act without thinking...you know they arent 100%...now think about it before you go ahead and take the moment...

i didnt get what you meant by that.

lOlurGFlikesME
04-10-2006, 08:38 PM
abortion is okai as long as u get it done before the embryo reaches 4th week.. but once the heart is developed then i consider it wrong as well.. but until then its okai ..



nuttin in life is 100% correct.. wut else is new..

USMarine
04-11-2006, 12:57 AM
Truth is it doesn't matter what you feel is right... at this point abortion is legal and a woman can decide and no matter how much a guy wants her to have the baby she can choose to kill the baby... we live in a messed up society... just deal with it and move on...

lOlurGFlikesME
04-11-2006, 01:15 AM
its onli fair that a women gets to decide if she wants to keep the child or not.. after all she is the mother thats bringing the child into the world.. nd if she isnt readie for it.. then it doesnt matter wut hey boy thinks..

nd abortion is totally justified.. if u had 16 yr old daughter that gets raped by sum random dude down the aley.. nd abortion was illegal, then she wut is she supposed to do.. just drop everythin nd start a family ? imean there is her family then school .. nd then wut wuld society sai.. its liek 2309349 other factors i dnt even wanna get started but eh thats me :wiggle:

daydream
04-11-2006, 11:47 AM
I think the abortion should not be dependent on when it is being done, as in the week of pregrancy, but also the situation the mother is in.

lOlurGFlikesME
04-11-2006, 12:42 PM
I think the abortion should not be dependent on when it is being done, as in the week of pregrancy, but also the situation the mother is in.

yaa thats truee.. nd its a good thing that its not depended on the week of pregnancy the mother is in, alone.. but i was jus sayin its not good to have it after 4th week technically.. even though i m sure there are many indivisuals who get it done at the 8th month even.. stupid hoes :bash:

daydream
04-11-2006, 06:01 PM
yaa thats truee.. nd its a good thing that its not depended on the week of pregnancy the mother is in, alone.. but i was jus sayin its not good to have it after 4th week technically.. even though i m sure there are many indivisuals who get it done at the 8th month even.. stupid hoes :bash:
That is absolutely sick, sad, and well so many other things that I cant even think of words to express.

lOlurGFlikesME
04-12-2006, 12:33 PM
ya it is.. but thats reality ..

Hudda_Budda
04-26-2006, 09:37 PM
Interesting note about abortion in Islam...some scholars say that according to Hadith, the soul does not enter the fetus until the end of the first trimester, so before that abortion can be okay. But then others like Imam Al-Ghazali say taht as soon as the sperm enters the egg, it's a life...I guess this is one of those things that you'd just have to see what your madhab says and follow it. Personally, I don't know and I don't care...I'm not having sex before marriage, so it's not an issue for me...

and the whole use a condom thing...everyone knows condom's arent 100 perecent, my opinion is if you have sex and use contraception, you know it's not 100 percent therefore you are accepting the risks...

oh yeah...

"No. Abortion is a conspiracy made up by the left wing government to forward the feminist agenda."

I totally agree, lol.

BeautyInTheBreakdown
04-28-2006, 01:22 PM
Truth is it doesn't matter what you feel is right... at this point abortion is legal and a woman can decide and no matter how much a guy wants her to have the baby she can choose to kill the baby... we live in a messed up society... just deal with it and move on...
we dont live in a messed up society abortion should be the mothers choice. who cares about the guy, for all the girl knows, he might end up leavin her..and it might not even be her fault if she got pregnant..she has to feel absolutely comfortable havin the baby n ready for it, with enough support and money to take care of the child properly..

Hudda_Budda
04-28-2006, 11:13 PM
we dont live in a messed up society abortion should be the mothers choice. who cares about the guy, for all the girl knows, he might end up leavin her..and it might not even be her fault if she got pregnant..she has to feel absolutely comfortable havin the baby n ready for it, with enough support and money to take care of the child properly..
that whole argument about it being only the woman's choice is straight up garbage. people always say the guy has no say and all that. what if the guy wants the kid...what if he is against someone killing his child...etc..etc...

I mean, yeah the woman's going through the pain, and the mother should have a big say, but you can't just dismiss the father...because that'sw hat he is...the father..

if the father runs out tho, then it's straight up the woman's choice.

BeautyInTheBreakdown
04-30-2006, 06:44 PM
you cant dismiss the father, course, but if he wants the kid so bad, he has to be able to take care of the kid, with or without the mother. everythin has to be perfect for the child..the environment..everything.

Hudda_Budda
05-01-2006, 06:16 PM
same goes for anyone...father or mother...

BeautyInTheBreakdown
05-01-2006, 06:25 PM
yessir

Hudda_Budda
05-01-2006, 06:28 PM
we dont live in a messed up society abortion should be the mothers choice. who cares about the guy, for all the girl knows, he might end up leavin her..and it might not even be her fault if she got pregnant..she has to feel absolutely comfortable havin the baby n ready for it, with enough support and money to take care of the child properly..

then why'd you say that?

BeautyInTheBreakdown
05-01-2006, 06:32 PM
i dont know im completely lost. i still think that it should be more of a mothers choice but im talking about if the couple isn't married yet, or they're in highschool or something like that.

Hudda_Budda
05-01-2006, 06:33 PM
lol you lost me so nevermind...

BeautyInTheBreakdown
05-01-2006, 06:35 PM
hahah yeah i think i started contradicting myself. i cant type everything out i just have to say it. i get confused freakin easy as hell. lol

Hudda_Budda
05-01-2006, 06:43 PM
haha its okay, ive done that too.