Friends with benefits

[Balla_Chik]

I have some friends who think that its one of the greatest type of non-committment things that was ever made. But what confuses me is that somehow one or the other one of their emotions gets caught up in it. I personally don't think its the way to go. You?

[midtownmadnesses]

I have some friends who think that its one of the greatest type of non-committment things that was ever made. But what confuses me is that somehow one or the other one of their emotions gets caught up in it. I personally don't think its the way to go. You?

what kinda benefits...please rephrase... :anxious:

[lOlurGFlikesME]

its ite to have fuk buddies.. as long as u dont get attached to them.. but if ur jus gettin wit them to get wit them then i doubt u had fall for em .. cuz imean if a girl is doin sum shyt wit u nd she not even wit u.. then she can b doin da same shyt wit sum other dude when she not wit him.. but if ur not readie for a relationship nd just want to have a lil fun then there is nuttin wrong wit that..


besides its alwaiz good to mess around, simply so u can b great at sex.. so when u do find that special one.. u dont make a fool of urself in bed :bash:

[Balla_Chik]

what kinda benefits...please rephrase... :anxious:
lol benefits... i guess you should be able to define it yourself. It varies depending on what you think should stay in a relationship and what doesnt have to.

Urgflikesme: lol first of all, nice id name :P I can tell we have a playaaaa in the housee :P I don't think you have to be in a relationship to have a casual hook up once in a while, or whatever makes you happy. Just the idea of having one guy be with one girl one night, and a different the next day grosses me out a lil bit. But hey whatever floats your boat!

[lOlurGFlikesME]

lol 1 girl 1 nite grosses me out too.. i perfer atleast 3.. ;P okai okai jk.. but i was jus sayin it in general.. imean if sum1 wants to go for it then sure.. nd it does have its positive as well as negative aspects.. id ont need to mention the negative ones cuz we all kno them so i was jus sayin positive attributes towards hooking up.. but me personallie i got a long distance relationship goin and i can cheat on my girl liek 30923902390 tiems a dai.. but i dont :wiggle:


ps no i m not a player :razz:

[Balla_Chik]

lol 1 girl 1 nite grosses me out too.. i perfer atleast 3.. ;P okai okai jk.. but i was jus sayin it in general.. imean if sum1 wants to go for it then sure.. nd it does have its positive as well as negative aspects.. id ont need to mention the negative ones cuz we all kno them so i was jus sayin positive attributes towards hooking up.. but me personallie i got a long distance relationship goin and i can cheat on my girl liek 30923902390 tiems a dai.. but i dont :wiggle:


ps no i m not a player :razz:


haha eww 3.. lol you're down with the sharing :P haha juss playin. I gochya :) You're right, i guess it was a good idea to see the positive.. well what seems positive. Hopefully they wouldnt end up with n std with so much activity :neutral:

But hey thats good for you! Way to make guys look good for once :razz: Naww thas cute though! Good luck with alla that :) Long distance can be rough!

[lOlurGFlikesME]

wut do u mean i m down wit da sharing.. i m not sharing da ppl i wuld get wit.. they r sharing me wit da other 2... ur so silly :bash: lol .. nd im speakin theoratically offcourse .. except da silly part :razz: .. nd u kno i been there done that but we all go through dat i guess.. but then u grow out of it eventuallie nd want a serious relationship.. nd i dunno i liek my long distance relationship.. cuz 1st off i known my girl for 5yrs + so we jus close to begin wit.. nd i kno if my girl stil lived in nj.. i had try to get wit her so its a good thing she dont.. cuz i m not tryin to do dat newai..


yes once again.. ima acha bacha ;P

[Seeeeeeema]

my friend indirectly asked me for it.. sigh.. i think it involves emotions and stuff.. i wouldnt dare do something like that.. ok fine only if i was really deprived!!

[lOlurGFlikesME]

sex doesnt involve emotions .. love does.. if ur jus doin it to simply do it.. then there is nuttin wrong wit dat.. sum ppl jus dont have time for relationships.. i dunno mayb i shuld jus shuddup lol

[pimps]

my friend indirectly asked me for it.. sigh.. i think it involves emotions and stuff.. i wouldnt dare do something like that.. ok fine only if i was really deprived!!

arent you your bf is at the other end of the world..

[Balla_Chik]

wut do u mean i m down wit da sharing.. i m not sharing da ppl i wuld get wit.. they r sharing me wit da other 2... ur so silly :bash: lol .. nd im speakin theoratically offcourse .. except da silly part :razz: .. nd u kno i been there done that but we all go through dat i guess.. but then u grow out of it eventuallie nd want a serious relationship.. nd i dunno i liek my long distance relationship.. cuz 1st off i known my girl for 5yrs + so we jus close to begin wit.. nd i kno if my girl stil lived in nj.. i had try to get wit her so its a good thing she dont.. cuz i m not tryin to do dat newai..


yes once again.. ima acha bacha ;P
lol sureeeee. Looks can be deceivingg.. you may look innocent but pff :P Haha im juss playin, if there's anything i'm always wrong about is judgement so ima juss chup now. Anyway, its cool that you're working out long distance, its a tuffy. Lol thanks, i know im silly :D

[sapno_di_rani03]

its the grls that are always taking their feelins and putting them inm that kind of a relationship so to me i think its impossible for a grl to have that friends with benefits shyt, cause then its just whorish and sluttish hai rabba...eeks
~Charmi~

[lOlurGFlikesME]

lol sureeeee. Looks can be deceivingg.. you may look innocent but pff :P Haha im juss playin, if there's anything i'm always wrong about is judgement so ima juss chup now. Anyway, its cool that you're working out long distance, its a tuffy. Lol thanks, i know im silly :D


no i look it and i amm .. ask anza =) .. nd no ur not wrong cuz u said ur playin about me being innocent so u cant b alwaiz wrong =) ... yaa long distance relationship can b tough esp when ur out wit friends nd u see other ppl kissin nd stuff nd then ur liek hrmp =( .. ill live .. but i dunno, i sorta kinda started likin dis girl but i dont talk to her no more cuz i didnt want any complications .. but ya its tough.. nd yes ur silly but its okai cuz so am i lol .. or mayb i m jus tryin to make u feel better by relating to u ... :wiggle:

[Balla_Chik]

its the grls that are always taking their feelins and putting them inm that kind of a relationship so to me i think its impossible for a grl to have that friends with benefits shyt, cause then its just whorish and sluttish hai rabba...eeks
~Charmi~
You're right. Girls definitely have a harder time, but i know girls that don't have a hard time so its like :neutral: , goes both ways. And i know guys that get really emotionally attached.

Lol thanks for making me feel better urgf, lol whats you're name btw, lol i hate calling you urgf. My whole fling deal is long distance to. We're not together or anything but i have an attachment to the guy and anytime i get even the slightest attraction to someone else i'll back off like.. hmm thats not fair to either of em. Weird situation.

[midtownmadnesses]

You're right. Girls definitely have a harder time, but i know girls that don't have a hard time so its like :neutral: , goes both ways. And i know guys that get really emotionally attached.

Lol thanks for making me feel better urgf, lol whats you're name btw, lol i hate calling you urgf. My whole fling deal is long distance to. We're not together or anything but i have an attachment to the guy and anytime i get even the slightest attraction to someone else i'll back off like.. hmm thats not fair to either of em. Weird situation.

Im filled with emotions...I don think Im ever gonna be able to hav somethin like that....

:anxious:

[Balla_Chik]

Im filled with emotions...I don think Im ever gonna be able to hav somethin like that....

:anxious:

Well i hope you dont have to be in a situation where you dont know what's better, just that you'll know that whatever you have is the best! You're a great guyyy juss be patient pagal :)

[midtownmadnesses]

Well i hope you dont have to be in a situation where you dont know what's better, just that you'll know that whatever you have is the best! You're a great guyyy juss be patient pagal :)

but how longgggggggggggggggggggggg!! :uh:

n thnx Sammy ur a great girl girl too, a great human being also..