My Sob Story...

[Izzat786]

So my girlfriend just started college. With that, there have been alot of problems this last couple of weeks. Now she thinks that talking once a week is fine. Here is a lil bit of background info, we have been together 20 months. It has always been long distance. I was her first boyfriend and first everything. We used to talk 24/7. Lately, she has been selfish and acts like this relationship is a chore. I love the girl dearly, but am getting very fucking frustrated with this bullshit. I have always done everything for this girl, but I guess she forgot that. I am so close to calling it quits and moving on. Just needed to vent and suggestions would be appreciated.

[Hudda_Budda]

So my girlfriend just started college. With that, there have been alot of problems this last couple of weeks. Now she thinks that talking once a week is fine. Here is a lil bit of background info, we have been together 20 months. It has always been long distance. I was her first boyfriend and first everything. We used to talk 24/7. Lately, she has been selfish and acts like this relationship is a chore. I love the girl dearly, but am getting very fucking frustrated with this bullshit. I have always done everything for this girl, but I guess she forgot that. I am so close to calling it quits and moving on. Just needed to vent and suggestions would be appreciated.
Cut her off! tell her girls should not be educated except in the ways of being a good wife and good mother!!

this is what Islam teaches!

[TheStoryTeller]

sumtimes when people reach different pts in their lives they get overwhelmed by new oppurtunities and forget about what they already have... starting univ. is sumthing like that... you change alot..and ur busy enjoying this new era in ur life...and u take past relationships for granted...

but sooner or later she'll realize what shes doing...

if u love her u'll try to make her understand and if she loves u as much as u love her she will understand


me and my bf for the past 2 yrs went thru sumthing similar when he started his own business... he was so into his business we didn't talk the way we use to... it was as if i didnt even know what he was anymore.. and me dorming and living on my own didnt help the situation because i was experience the whole independent univ. thing

he got into alot of shit and almost fcked up his life because he forgot his true goals with me and our future...
it took alot for him to realize what had happened to us... and we started talking again.. its a slow process... we're far from perfect.. we're working on it and we're trying to talk as much as possible...


communication is really the key to anything.... and its hard as hell when ur giving it 200% and the other person is giving a mere 10%

if its ment to be it'll survive
good luck
:cuddle:

[bluestreak56]

I feel your pain, and know exactly what you're going through .. but you cant allow yourself to tak what you have for granted because you may find when its gone, you would have been more than happy with the scraps you get currently .. I know thats how I feel..

[Googl3y]

There are more than 3 billion women on this earth.